As people grow older, their skin naturally undergoes a wide range of visible changes. Years of sun exposure, shifts in hormone levels, slower cell turnover, and the gradual thinning of the skin all contribute to new spots, patches, and growths appearing over time. For many families, these changes can be surprising or even alarming, particularly when they seem to arise suddenly or look dark and irregular. If your grandpa has developed dark, waxy bumps on his neck that itch, it is completely understandable to wonder what they might be and whether they signal something serious. In older adults, one of the most common explanations for growths that match this description is seborrheic keratosis. These are benign, meaning non-cancerous, skin growths that frequently appear after middle age. Although their appearance can be dramatic—sometimes dark brown or nearly black, slightly raised, and textured—they are generally harmless. Still, because they can itch, catch on clothing, or resemble more dangerous skin conditions, it is important to understand what they are, how they differ from skin cancer, and when a medical evaluation is appropriate.
Seborrheic keratoses are among the most common benign skin growths seen in people over the age of 50. They can appear gradually over years or seem to emerge almost overnight. Their size varies widely, ranging from just a few millimeters across to larger patches more than an inch in diameter. They often have a waxy, scaly, or slightly greasy surface and may look as though they were “stuck onto” the skin rather than growing from within it. Some people compare their texture to dried candle wax, a dab of melted chocolate, or a small piece of clay pressed onto the surface. The color can range from light tan to dark brown or black, and occasionally they may appear lighter than the surrounding skin. Although they can develop almost anywhere on the body except the palms of the hands and soles of the feet, they are especially common on the chest, back, scalp, face, and neck. The neck is a frequent site because it experiences both sun exposure and friction from clothing, two factors that may contribute to their development or irritation. Sometimes a person has just one lesion; other times, multiple growths cluster together in the same region.
Itching is a common complaint associated with seborrheic keratoses, particularly when they are located in areas where clothing rubs against them. On the neck, collars, scarves, and jewelry can create friction that leads to irritation. Scratching can make the area red or inflamed and may even cause minor bleeding if the surface is disturbed. Despite their sometimes alarming appearance, seborrheic keratoses are not contagious and do not spread from one person to another. They are also not caused by poor hygiene. The exact reason they form is not fully understood, but several contributing factors are recognized. Aging itself plays a central role, as these growths rarely appear in younger individuals. Long-term sun exposure is believed to increase the likelihood of developing them, especially in areas that receive regular sunlight. Genetics also appears significant; they often run in families, meaning a person is more likely to develop them if close relatives have had similar growths. In some cases, hormonal changes or general shifts in skin biology over time may contribute as well.
Because seborrheic keratoses can sometimes look dark, irregular, or raised, they are occasionally mistaken for more serious conditions, including melanoma and other forms of skin cancer. This resemblance is one of the main reasons families become concerned when they notice new or changing spots. However, there are important differences. Seborrheic keratoses usually have a clearly defined border and a fairly uniform color throughout the lesion. They often maintain a symmetrical shape and have a characteristic “stuck-on” look. In contrast, skin cancers such as melanoma frequently display irregular or jagged edges, asymmetry, and multiple shades within the same lesion—such as brown, black, red, or even bluish tones. They may grow rapidly, ulcerate, or bleed without provocation. That said, it can sometimes be difficult for a non-professional to tell the difference simply by looking. Any growth that changes noticeably in size, shape, color, or texture—or begins bleeding persistently—should be evaluated by a healthcare provider. While seborrheic keratoses themselves are benign and do not turn into cancer, it is possible for a separate skin cancer to develop nearby or for a suspicious lesion to be mistaken for one of these harmless growths.
Age and skin type both influence how these growths appear and how noticeable they are. Seborrheic keratoses are far more common in individuals over 50, and their frequency increases steadily with advancing age. Lighter skin tones may make darker lesions more visually striking, but people of all complexions can develop them. In darker skin, they may appear as deeper brown or black growths that blend differently with surrounding tissue. Over time, additional lesions may form, and existing ones may thicken or become more textured. While this progression can be unsettling, it is generally considered a normal part of aging skin rather than a disease process. Understanding that these growths are common and typically harmless can help reduce unnecessary anxiety, especially when multiple family members share similar skin findings as they age.
If there is any uncertainty about the diagnosis, a dermatologist can usually confirm seborrheic keratosis with a straightforward clinical examination. In many cases, an experienced clinician can identify these growths immediately based on their characteristic appearance. To examine the lesion more closely, a dermatologist may use a dermatoscope, a handheld device that magnifies the skin and allows visualization of surface patterns not visible to the naked eye. If a growth looks atypical or if there is concern about possible malignancy, the doctor may recommend a biopsy. This involves removing either a small sample or the entire lesion and sending it to a laboratory for microscopic analysis. A biopsy provides definitive information about whether the growth is benign or cancerous. The procedure is typically performed in an outpatient setting using local anesthesia and involves minimal discomfort.
Treatment for seborrheic keratoses is not medically necessary in most cases unless they become bothersome, symptomatic, or cosmetically distressing. Many people choose to leave them alone once reassured that they are harmless. However, if a lesion itches frequently, catches on clothing, bleeds due to repeated irritation, or causes self-consciousness, removal is an option. Several safe and effective treatments are available. Cryotherapy is one common method, in which liquid nitrogen is applied to freeze the growth, causing it to blister and eventually fall off. Another technique is curettage, where the lesion is gently scraped away after numbing the area. In some instances, electrosurgery may be used to burn off the growth, often in combination with scraping. Laser treatments are also available and can vaporize the lesion with precision. These procedures are usually quick and performed in a dermatologist’s office, with little downtime and a low risk of scarring when done properly.
While it may be tempting to try home remedies or over-the-counter solutions, attempting to remove seborrheic keratoses without medical supervision is not recommended. Picking, cutting, or scratching them can cause bleeding, infection, and unnecessary scarring. Some topical products marketed for skin growth removal may not be appropriate for these lesions and could damage surrounding healthy skin. Additionally, treating a lesion at home without a confirmed diagnosis carries the risk of overlooking a more serious condition. Consulting a healthcare provider ensures that the growth is accurately identified and that any treatment performed is safe and suitable for the individual’s overall health.
Encouraging your grandpa to discuss his skin changes with his doctor can provide both reassurance and clarity. Before an appointment, it may help to note when the bumps first appeared, whether they have changed in size or color, and how often they itch or bleed. If possible, taking clear photographs over time can help track changes. Offering to accompany him to the visit can make the process less stressful and ensure that all concerns are addressed. Open communication with a healthcare professional allows for proper evaluation and peace of mind. In most cases, dark, waxy, itchy bumps on the neck of an older adult turn out to be seborrheic keratoses—common, benign growths that reflect the natural aging of the skin rather than a dangerous illness. Understanding their characteristics, knowing when to seek medical advice, and avoiding do-it-yourself removal are key steps in managing them safely and confidently.