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I learned about shrubs, trees, and perennials, while contractors began trusting my recommendations. Whenever I was sent away for the weekend, I returned to Hattie&#8217;s farm, where she taught me how to graft peach trees. She showed me how to join a cutting from one tree to another rootstock, creating something stronger together. I also learned to examine damaged trees and search beneath the surface for signs of life. At home, however, I continued making myself invisible.<\/p>\n<p>When my grandmother died, I attended her funeral but stayed behind a pillar while Ellie and her parents sat with my family. Later, I read the obituary alone in my car. It listed one surviving daughter and one grandson. My name wasn&#8217;t there. I folded the program and kept it in my coat pocket. Two years later, Ellie unexpectedly walked into my garden center wearing nursing school scrubs. She needed a dogwood for her church&#8217;s memorial garden because her fianc\u00e9&#8217;s family had lost someone. 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