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Dad explained that the mill had been laying off workers in 1984, and he had been terrified of losing their security. He wanted to buy her the lake property she had once dreamed about, but he knew that any money openly available in the household might be needed by someone else. Brian had repeatedly fallen into trouble, and Dad had kept rescuing him. Each time, he postponed telling his wife about the property and savings. He admitted that he had spent so long being a father that he had forgotten to be a husband.<\/p>\n<p>He wanted Mom to enjoy the remaining good years of her life, not simply survive them. Then I opened my own envelope. Dad wrote that I had always been the one who stayed, and that staying required courage, but I was allowed to put down some of that responsibility. He told me the Pine Lake property was mine to love as much as Mom&#8217;s. I could barely finish reading. Brian&#8217;s envelope remained on the table. That Sunday evening, he arrived unexpectedly, looking exhausted. When he saw Dad&#8217;s watch beside Mom, his face went pale. He admitted again that he had sold it for thirty-five dollars and spent the money on whiskey. Mom did not shout. 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