The dental office where I’d been working offered me a full-time position managing their billing. When my first full paycheck arrived, I stared at the deposit longer than I care to admit. For the first time in years, that money belonged to me. It represented groceries, electricity, school supplies, and rent\u2014but it also represented something I hadn’t felt in a long time: independence.<\/p>\n
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Shane now sees the children every other weekend. He eventually stopped describing what happened as one mistake, because there were too many receipts, too many lies, and too many consequences for that phrase to survive. Mom changed too. Living with me seemed to wake up a part of her that had been quiet for decades. She made decisions without asking Dad what he thought. She bought things because she liked them. Sometimes we’d sit together after the children went to sleep and realize that both of us were learning the same lesson at completely different ages: starting over was frightening, but staying trapped had been worse.<\/p>\n
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