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That failed too. \u201cSir,\u201d the waiter finally said, \u201call linked cards have been cancelled or restricted.\u201d Isabelle slowly removed the emerald necklace. The evening&#8217;s total had reached an astonishing $730,000, and suddenly Colin had no way to pay.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Across town, I sat at my father&#8217;s kitchen table watching fraud alerts explode across my phone. Attempt declined. Card restricted. Merchant: Halcyon House. Dad calmly poured coffee as though he&#8217;d expected every notification. Then he placed an old leather folder between us. \u201cHow many of those ten cards shared the same PIN?\u201d he asked. My stomach dropped. For years I&#8217;d used my late mother&#8217;s birthday as the PIN on several accounts. I&#8217;d never told Colin, but he&#8217;d watched me enter it countless times. Dad opened the folder. \u201cHe didn&#8217;t need you to tell him, Natalie. 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