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Then I asked Brian\u2019s attorney to confirm what he had told the buyer about my ownership. Silence followed.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I calmly explained that the only document I had signed at that steak dinner was an acknowledgment of receipt. Nothing else. Gerald called it a misunderstanding, then a family matter, and finally a mistake. I laid out the facts: my fifty-two percent stake, my $1.6 million investment, and the email promising the buyer that my interest would be \u201ccleaned up\u201d through a divorce. Then I told them exactly what would happen next. 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