Daniel surprised me by agreeing. He pointed out that Richard bought groceries, he made breakfast, and everyone cleared their plates. Susan had been the exception. By nine, Susan had made breakfast, though the eggs were and the toast burned. Three times Mom tried to help, and three times I told her to sit. After breakfast, Susan left her plate behind until Daniel reminded her to take it to the sink.<\/p>\n
By lunchtime, Mom followed me around the kitchen correcting every thing. Finally she asked, \u201cWhat am I supposed to do?\u201d She seemed lost without someone needing her. I sent her outside with a mystery novel. Later, I overheard Susan telling Richard that Mom had admitted the house was becoming harder to manage. Susan explained that she had been trying not to make Mom feel old or helpless.<\/p>\n
Then Susan told us about her mother. When her mother aged, Susan and her siblings did everything for her, believing they were helping. Her mother said they had made her feel useless. She died four months later, and Susan never apologized. Susan said she had tried to avoid repeating that mistake with Mom. I understood her reasoning, but Mom said the truth: \u201cI like taking care of people. I don\u2019t like being taken for granted. Those aren\u2019t the same thing.\u201d<\/p>\n
That changed everything. Susan apologized for moving the flowers and began helping without being asked. She cooked dinner, carried her dishes, and scrubbed the bathroom floor, realizing how much Mom had done every weekend. The next summer, Mom kept a rotating chore board, but she also wrote, \u201cSunday breakfast. And enjoy my house.\u201d Susan still visited, but she stopped using the big lounger and chose the chair where she could see the lake. The flowers stayed on the railing, where Mom wanted them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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