Three weeks after Grandma Ruth died, my mother called and told me what I was going to do with the inheritance. Ruth had left me her Stillwater house, investment accounts, and the remainder of her estate after a $20,000 donation to the animal shelter she had supported for fifteen years. My mother said it was only fair that I split everything with my older sister, Olivia. When I reminded her that Ruth had deliberately named me as the sole beneficiary, her voice turned wounded. Olivia had children, she said. Mason was four, Lily was two, and another baby might be coming. I was single and doing fine in Chicago. What did I need the money for?<\/p>\n
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It wasn’t the first time my independence had been used against me. Olivia’s cheerleading, college, wedding, minivan, house, and childcare had all been funded by our family. When I wanted art lessons, I was told to use library books. When Olivia received new clothes, I received her castoffs. I learned early to become the daughter who needed nothing. But Ruth had always seen the difference. She had never compared me to Olivia or asked when I planned to marry. Then my father called, furious, and my mother sent one final message: \u201cTransfer it to her or don\u2019t bother coming home.\u201d That was when I stopped feeling guilty and started getting ready to protect what Ruth had left me.<\/p>\n
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